Overcoming Fertility Trials as a Couple — The Husband’s Perspective

지지하는 배우자| The One with TDawg: Episode 34 (2023)

“It’s like this sudden vision: Like when I get to heaven, and there’s a tap on your shoulder, and glimpsing faces resembling yours but not quite — the children you never had the chance to meet. You’re in a room surrounded by these unseen souls, and I remember jesting with God about how crowded that room would soon become! I quipped, “You know how I grapple with social anxiety?” It’s an odd thought, isn’t it? Dark humor, yet a moment to reflect and share a chuckle at the peculiar irony.” — Mo! (2023)

“In Christianity, it’s said, ‘And two shall become one.’ So, labeling one party as the primary factor doesn’t align with our unity. Understanding the emotional toll our struggles took on you was a process. I suppressed my emotions, hoping for good news and facing disappointment repeatedly. Navigating these highs and lows, trying to stay positive despite the challenges, has been quite the journey.” — TDawg (2023)

Disclaimer: We will discuss depression-related topics in this episode. If you or someone you know is struggling with these issues, please seek professional help immediately. You’re not alone, and support is available via our ongoing fertility project. We discuss the mental, physical, and emotional stress concerning miscarriages, infertility treatments, and negative social and environmental factors that contribute to the mental stress that accompanies going through infertility.

Welcome back, Mosiblings, to the podcast! I’m excited to introduce a special guest on the show this week. Continuing our fertility series journey, I’m joined by someone who has been my unwavering support for over 12 years, my eternal cheerleader, and a familiar face on the show — please give a warm welcome to TDawg! Formally known as Taiwo Adedipe, my ever-supportive husband wears many hats: a family physician and a public health care practitioner who finds immense joy in his work.

In this episode, part of our ongoing fertility series spanning over four weeks, we delve deeper into the challenges of…